My year in China is winding down a little bit, and it's time to start thinking about whether or not I want to return. Much like everything else here, my opinion sways moment to moment. The facts, of course, are a good place to start, and here is what I know.
I will be moving, again. This time to a city called Wuhan, roughly parallel to Shanghai. Known as one of the Four Furnaces of China, it's disgustingly hot in the summer and a bit chilly in the winter. However, it also got what looks to be a fairly decent ex-pat community. Having lived in Shenyang for a few months, I think I can speak on this topic. Certainly there are people who move to a foreign country and feel scared to experience any of it. Through the ex-pat community in Dalian, I've met people who are scared enough of crossing the street that they won't walk a few blocks; they'd rather take a taxi. People who live in hotels where every need is catered to and they are buffered from China at all times.
That said, immersion can be a trying, trying thing. Honestly, there are times when a girl just wants to eat a fajita at a table full of people who can discuss the Muppets. Even better is when that happens with a table of people who you don't see day in and day out. People you choose are always the best company, and for that to happen, there has to be a community of them to choose from.
I've discussed this several times now, so I won't go into detail, but going into a new culture is a priceless experience worth it's weight in gold. Losing almost all aspects of our own in the process can be incredibly disorienting and emotionally draining.
So, there's that. I like the heat, and I can get a few good meals. I can probably even buy bread there.
But, there are other factors to consider.
